Ravishment: The Dark Side of Erotic Fantasy

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  • Paperback
  • 108 pages
  • Ravishment: The Dark Side of Erotic Fantasy
  • Desmond Ravenstone
  • 22 April 2018
  • 9781411655478

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    Ravishment: The Dark Side of Erotic Fantasy… Love Lockdown

    “Ravishment is the safe, sane and consensual enactment of an erotic fantasy where there is appearance of coercion and resistance. Ravishment is also frequently called “consensual rape fantasy,” “forced-sex fantasy,” or similar names. Ravishment enactments, or scenes, may also involve fantasies of other acts – abduction, home invasion, captivity, torture, forced enslavement.”
    Desmond Ravenstone, Ravishment: The Dark Side of Erotic Fantasy

    Now that’s easier to explain than love and less frightening, at least to me but being a virgin how would I know about such things… keep reading. “Ravishment: The Dark Side of Erotic Fantasy” by Desmond Ravenstone is the closest bit of literature I have found on a subject that has fascinated me for quite some time; the sexual fetish known as Ravishment.

    Again I am a virgin and just as reading a cookbook doesn’t make me a chef or reading about how to become a writer makes me one, this book won’t make me any sort of a sexual dynamo. On the other hand considering I’ve read a bit of the works of Le Marquis de Sade, Christian Grey and his Fifty Shades was a trip to Disney World by comparison, and I have studied all manner of kink and erotic literature this was quite a nice bit of research. You see as I was telling a friend of mine recently if you don’t study your physical form as well as your mental faculties how will you ever know who you are; I can also say that people won’t teach you such things as this because they’re considered perverted, depraved, and sick, hell I never got the sex talk when the time came for it, I have yet to experience my first kiss, and even in most porno, Ravishment is considered a taboo subject.

    This book simply enough makes me feel like less of a freak, it explains the psychology of such concepts, and most importantly perhaps explains how to stay safe but that only applies if you have a willing partner. In the research aspect it doesn’t exactly serve as a compendium on the subject, what other books could or would but for one of the only books I could find on the subject the author does his best to answer the key questions. It’s also not preachy, there are so many people who would label such explanations as wrong or sick but first if you’re not one for Ravishment it won’t convince you to go that way, it simply serves what you already have, for example I always thought being called Daddy in a sexual way was kind of perverted but then I met this certain girl and hearing her say it well… turns me on; I don’t understand people who like golden showers and the like, I just know I wouldn’t but I don’t condemn them for it, also when a book tells you something you don’t want to know but you come to an understanding of it, always I appreciate knowledge.

    The idea that such a book exists gives me joy and learning about not only the how’s and why’s of the subject but learning about myself is amazing. If I had to explain my own proclivity to the subject and I’m no doctor or psychologist I might estimate that for me love is always running away, love is dangerous, and compared to my lustful appetites love is innocence anew, so the idea of tying or chaining it up, of controlling it, and of corrupting it but it remaining the beauty that I so desire, well this appeals to me.

    “For us, power and control are means to the more important end of erotic pleasure and the fulfillment of desire. We relish the challenge of letting out our primal, feral selves under safe and controlled conditions, then pulling that inner beast back into its cave. We revel in the role of sensual sorcerers, using the magic of imagination to bring fantasies to life and find light in the shadows.”
    Desmond Ravenstone, Ravishment: The Dark Side of Erotic Fantasy

    According to the author a rather simple definition of a ravisher is “the person who assumes the active “perpetrator” role in a ravishment scene” as the ravishee is “the person who assumes the receptive/resistant “victim” role in a ravishment scene.” Already I could draw many parallels between being as such and ideas of stealing one’s heart away, cupid’s arrows, falling in love and the like but most would not akin such to rape or excuse me ravishment.

    I could continue along the path of the author but I say again I’m a virgin so merely the idea of sex unfortunately for me is foreign so as for what I have taken from it, for me personally I am one for primal instinct and control, as anyone who has truly researched my writings I have let’s say a unique perspective of sex. It is truly difficult for me to keep the beast locked in the cage so I live vicariously through others but it seems my desires can only be lived fictitiously or through dreams and when I have hinted at my most darkest yearnings well in time such as ours for example I had quite the jailbait fetish before I learned the term age-play and Chris Hansen would have had a field day, I can’t be friends with people in my daily life online because during the day I have to portray the mask and online I wear a mask too… usually with several fantasy girls and I’m not getting fired, and how can I have anything romantically speaking when I must begin with lies and have no idea if I held back that I would have my needs met. This book showed me some of my desires but in the end I have no practical experience.

    “I fall in love with heroines, and goody-goodies who have naughty sides, my current reading list are dystopias, erotic both consensual and non-consensual, and teenage girls or just over 18 stories. Ravishment, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, and Age-Play are my fetishes, I want to own an adult studio, brothel, club/dungeon someday but my greatest goal in life is to find true love, have a family, and write novels on the beach and at my house in the woods with a crystal blue lake and play footsy in the water while my wife and watch the sunset… amongst other assorted beliefs and plans.” Will Bradford Jr. (email to an understanding friend)

    While in books such as this there seems to be a plethora of would be ravishees I have yet to meet a woman that would go to such depravity; I’ve met a submissive here or there, a Little (BDSM would be daddy’s girl) others with a wild or dirty side but never “the one”. The author even attempts to explain how to find a partner or persuade a lover, again I have never found a partner and with a would be lover I wouldn’t lie but I don’t think I could live my life without such an experience which might be a sign to a larger issue but I am one for primal passion, all that I am with a person and if I could not be what exactly is the point? The book stresses the importance of safety and taking care of one’s partner and even explains why some would want to be ravished both within the BDSM paradigm, in a relationship outside of it, and even as a form of sexual therapy and all that it entails.

    It is easier to understand than love again, safe words, aftercare, negotiating and planning, psychological issues and everything in-between. The fact of the matter is it can’t prepare you for everything and it’s almost a slap in the face to know all these things and the author has put them into practice but to know so much and still be looked at as a pariah or an observer.

    “All knowledge is for good. Only the use to which you put it can be good or evil.”
    Battle for the Planet of the Apes (1973)

    It has its hits and misses, more hits rather, and again I appreciate learning all of this, I wish I could just sit down with someone and explain all that I know now, maybe someday I can put down every single naughty, depraved, perverted, sick and twisted, insane, hentai fantastical fantasy of mine on paper. Still there were a few things that were missing, things I couldn’t understand, a maddening thought here or there to be read.

    I liked when the portion about the brute, the tormentor, and the seducer, I am more or a tormentor who wants to eventually seduce, as I heard in a song once:

    “Cause I may be bad
    But I'm perfectly good at it
    Sex in the air
    I don't care
    I love the smell of it
    Sticks and stones
    May break my bones
    But chains and whips
    Excite me”
    S&M by Rihanna

    “You've got me wandering why I,
    I like it rough I,
    I like it rough I,
    I like it rough.”
    I Like It Rough by Lady Gaga

    I could go on for a while on that tangent but I also like how through the research is in regard to supplies and safe words, even a plan for the cops… did it just get scary again; yes there may be screaming involved and if you have a fetish for exhibition or public venues the section might help. There was also that fantasy of a gang scene but I’m somewhat of the jealous type… for now, that’s something I’m exploring and the psychology ramifications for one I always believed that such eroticism might free me to a certain degree, social anxiety and the like but when it comes to this sense of feeling, of being in control and then again not maybe it will help me in my interactions day to day.

    A miss would be I think it focused just a tad too much on the ravishee’s pleasures, don’t get me wrong when I’m with a girl I want her to get off but I want to get off as well, I don’t think I could do it strictly for her, on the same token she couldn’t do it strictly for me either, I think it would have to be something within both me and her, I want to ravish and she wants to be ravished and we both enjoy ourselves, the book says mutual but clearly is focused a bit on the ravishee. Also the term Ravishment itself, I know rape is not an endearing word in our lexicon, neither is slut, whore, f@#$, c%$# and even baby girl to a degree but it just feels wrong in a way, not that I would put “I want to rape you” on a dating profile but people tend to get confused and when I find that special girl I’m going to explain in detail the idea of a ravishment scene and I suppose the word rape will come up. As for the rest the author couldn’t help, I’m a traditionalist when it comes to books but maybe it just feels weird not having a Kindle version of this, I’d like recommendations of other titles such as this, and lastly being who I am this book does not help me find a partner but again that’s my fault.

    “When she's abandoned her moral center and teachings...when she's cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me.”
    ― Marquis de Sade

    “A man's sexual choice is the result and the sum of his fundamental convictions.... He will always be attracted to the woman who reflects his deepest vision of himself, the woman whose surrender permits him to experience a sense of self-esteem. The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer--because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement.”
    ― Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged

    I believe in both of these quotes equally, things I would want my future wife to know, I can love and I can ravish but love no person wants from me, and ravishment no girl would stand for… get it, but I mean no woman that I loved or hell that I know period would want such things; as for the book itself I gave it three stars, thoroughly researched on a taboo subject, but maybe I’m just yearning for more. As for a final thought, if it feels good do it but why does it feel so good to love in a way others would consider wrong?

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